Life can be really tough. Sometimes, we feel like we're all by ourselves with our struggles, thinking nobody else gets what we're going through. When marriages end, it can leave us feeling really down, scared, and ashamed, like we're all alone and stuck.

Starting over can be super hard, especially when you're still looking after your kids. I get it; I've been there too. But I want you to know, God is looking out for you. He feels your pain and catches every tear you cry. And He's not going to leave you feeling like this forever.

I know healing is possible, loving again is possible, and you can thrive after the fallout of your marriage.

from mess to message
Melinda Olsen Melinda Olsen

from mess to message

Our messes can become our messages.

The journey to our message, (also called our testimony), can be the pivotal moment in our lives where our faith becomes personal, where we meet Jesus, for real.

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nine prayers we should pray over children
Melinda Olsen Melinda Olsen

nine prayers we should pray over children

The responsibility to pray for the children of this world lies not only with parents of children, or grandparents of children. It lies also with all of us who believe that what Jesus found precious, like the children, so should we.

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the girl I used to know
Melinda Olsen Melinda Olsen

the girl I used to know

“Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.” Proverbs 31:30 (NIV)

Whether people are religious or not, most people believe they have some form of a spirit or soul, something that separates us from the animals, something that makes us human, and something that will live on long after we are gone.

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when hope lived within
Melinda Olsen Melinda Olsen

when hope lived within

There are two kinds of hope, earthly and biblical.

Biblical/spiritual hope is based not on what we have seen, but on who we know holds the future. This certainty gives us joy, peace, and patience in the waiting. No matter our earthly circumstances.

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seeing patterns
Melinda Olsen Melinda Olsen

seeing patterns

“We change our behavior when the pain of staying the same becomes greater than the pain of changing. Consequences give us the pain that motivates us to change.” Dr. Henry Cloud

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a slow fade
Melinda Olsen Melinda Olsen

a slow fade

People don’t crumble in a day. It’s generally compromise here, a compromise there. It’s a gradual and slow fade. Addiction, affairs, cheating, stealing, most sin patterns begin with little compromises here and there until we are numb to the sin itself.

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hard to love
Melinda Olsen Melinda Olsen

hard to love

We all love the idea of love. We all want to love and be loved, and we all know, it’s no secret, there are people in this world that are just plain hard to love!

At the end of the day, "We love because he first loved us." 1 John 4:19

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a life well lived
Melinda Olsen Melinda Olsen

a life well lived

“The world needs strong women. Women who will lift and build others, who will love and be loved. Women who live bravely, both tender and fierce. Women of indomitable will.” ~Amy Tenney

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arms of love
Melinda Olsen Melinda Olsen

arms of love

“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light” (Matthew 11:28-30 NIV).

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the good stuff
Melinda Olsen Melinda Olsen

the good stuff

God’s timing is not our timing, but his timing is perfect. God is the creator of “thegoodstuff” in this life, but we don’t get to decide the timing of his answers. We just need to have open eyes and hands to receive it when it comes to us.

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the gift you must give
Melinda Olsen Melinda Olsen

the gift you must give

“Letting your child go doesn't have to be a sad event. It just shows you've raised a strong, independent person ready to take on the world.” (UA)

Nine suggestions to help foster relationships with your adult children.

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the power of the negative
Melinda Olsen Melinda Olsen

the power of the negative

Studies have shown that it takes five positive comments to overcome the power of one negative comment. In psychology, teaching, coaching, as well as many other areas of life, this is known as the five to one ratio.

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let freedom ring
Melinda Olsen Melinda Olsen

let freedom ring

It seems as though the word freedom has morphed into something new called, “meedom.”

My freedoms. My rights.

A healthy society cannot sustain itself if everyone sees freedom as “meedom.”

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in the world, but not of this world…what?
Melinda Olsen Melinda Olsen

in the world, but not of this world…what?

…three areas of life, where I especially struggle, living in this juxtaposition of being in this world, but not OF this world…

1. Holiness vs self-righteousness.

2. Holiness over self?

3. Holiness over my heart?

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